Too many couples try to split chores, bills, and childcare down the middle but a couples therapist says that's a mistakeGet the Full StoryEkaterina Pokrovsky Shutterstock
Couples therapist Lori Gottlieb is quoted in "How to Be Married" saying that you shouldn't expect to split household tasks 50 50 with your partner.
Gottlieb suggests that the division of labor should be more organic, so that each person feels fulfilled.
That may be harder than it seems. Even today, women still tend to bear the brunt of housework.
One strategy is to get clear about who's doing what around the house, and then swap or outsource tasks so that each person winds up happy with their responsibilities.
There's a scene in one of my favorite movies where the viewer learns that a woman and her husband split all their expenditures precisely 50 50.
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